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And so, victims of broken relationships with married partners are often isolated, with little emotional support to help them heal.
So, how do the Susans of the world avoid injury from such a relationship?
They may feel that the reasons for ending it should be obvious to their affair partner, and that she or he should just take it like a "big girl."“You knew what you were getting into,” is a not uncommon reason to stop calling, stop emailing, stop texting, and if it is a workplace relationship, stop being nice at work.4. Whether through shame, a desire to protect the cheater, or both, it is often true that no one knows of the relationship.
If friends know, it may be only a best friend, or those in a close circle.
Whether she discovers these facts or not, her heart is destined to be broken. However, some data point to the possibility that a broken heart after ending it with a married person can be much more difficult to heal than a broken heart after a more traditional relationship. Cheaters who end relationships tend not to be the most sensitive partners.3.
His time with her, whether texting, secret coffee dates, or time spent in her bed, reveals a commitment much deeper than the single men she has been with. They didn’t have to engage in clandestine plans and think of elaborate excuses.
And most single men confess they are initially very careful not to appear too interested, lest they find themselves headed for a commitment they're not ready for.
The intimacy they share, the illusion he creates, is tremendously mesmerizing.
She may perceive it as his commitment, an investment in their relationship.