Ready to give up on dating
but dating when you have FOUR kids is like the Mt Everest of the dating world!It seems almost impossible for men to see past that.I feel like I'm going to be alone forever, I see everyone Around me getting bf's and gf's no problem, but I can't even get a woman to go one a single with me.I'm just about ready to stop playing the games that women want me to play and just turn to p*rn.
Even if I really take my time getting to know someone before we become intimate… Don’t hear from him for days, I assume it’s over…then a text with, “hey are you home tonight? Is it unreasonable that I am hoping someone could take me seriously or see my worth?
Dear Christina, Before I give you the pep talk you need, let me first acknowledge the painful truths that you’ve eloquently outlined above. Having four kids under the age of 9 is a huge handicap.
I’d try to spin it in a slightly more positive way, but I can’t.
There’s no way that I — or most men who don’t have their shit together — would willingly enter into a relationship with a woman who has so many other responsibilities, the way all moms do.
At risk of making myself look bad, I once dated a single mom of a two-year-old.