How to write the first email t online dating
Men: Look for similarities Many men make the mistake of writing to a woman they’ve seen on an online dating site, solely on the basis of her photo and geographic proximity.
But selecting the hottest babe in your zip code isn’t the best formula for getting you dates.
You’re better off approaching another woman who does share your enthusiasm for surfing or Italian food or country music.
Men looking to meet women online often tell me they feel frustrated because women don’t write back to them.
Most reasonably attractive women with online dating profiles receive dozens of those kind of responses per week—in some cases, dozens per day.
Your compliment won’t stand out from all the other responses in her inbox.
If a gorgeous woman in your area writes in her profile that she loves science fiction, go back and amend your profile to include our favorite sci-fi books or movies.
I definitely don’t advocate dishonesty here—if you hate sci-fi and her profile doesn’t reveal any other common ground with you, simply move on.