Dating an older guy with kids
If he encourages you to do this before you’re ready, you will forever resent him for what you missed out on.
Every time you go to a restaurant, the staff will glare at you both — him for being shallow and you for being a gold digger.
Try Googling images of 50-year-olds and 70-year-olds and see how many more of these lines the latter group has.
They will never trust him if he’s 10-plus years your senior, no matter what he does to gain their approval along the way.
That is a personal decision you should figure out long before you involve a woman and her child in your life.
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That sounds dramatic; don’t forget how it actually looks…
But while the relationship with the father of the woman’s child should not dictate your relationship, their relationship –- whether good or bad –- will play a role in your lives.
It’s important to know what you are getting yourself into.
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I have friends who have gotten upset because a woman they are dating has to drop everything for their child. A woman should not be placed in a position to choose between the child she loves and the man she likes.