Am i dating the wrong man
Two months after we started dating I sold my condo (not because of him) and started living in a place he owned and he broke up with me three times within a few weeks, the first time several days after I moved in which was two days before Christmas and then a few weeks later after he was staying at the condo with me he broke up with me another two times.He said it was because I wouldnt take the profiles down and that I was holding onto that life.You have a finite amount of time on this planet, so you want to be wise in how you spend your life energy.Unfortunately you can’t always rely on initial spark or intense attraction to indicate a good match, particularly with online dating.I was a sex worker when we met 7 months ago and he was one of my clients.
Even if he's not, in my opinion it would benefit you to get out of that kind of work completely, even before you think that you have done it enough for the financial reasons.
Then you moved in with him after only a few months. He was well aware of what I did since that was how we met so he participated as well and I don't believe that you should expect someone you barely know to change their lifestyle for you when that was my only income at the time, regardless of if he agreed with it or not.
You can't possibly know someone well enough at that point to make any long term decisions about your life for them. He had unrealistic expectations of taking a sex worker "off the market," and you don't trust each other. True, but I told him that I would take my profiles down through time once we got to know each other more and I trusted him.
True, but I told him that I would take my profiles down through time once we got to know each other more and I trusted him.
After two months of him breaking up with me, I no longer trusted him. I don't live there anymore and have since gotten my own place.